Friday, February 13, 2009

Valentine's day, moral policing and beyond..

Quite a lot of discussions have already been aired on the issues of Mangalore pub incident, Valentines day and the like..I believe a time has come, rather, the moment of truth has arrived, for our society, or people like you and me to take stock of the muck, the absolute non-sense that is going around us in the guise of guarding or protecting Indian culture. Self-appointed cultural guardians and moral police-men abound all around us - professing what is Indian culture and what it is not, in that process forcing themselves on us. They do that unabashedly, in wanton disregard of the norms that a progressive society ought to be endowed with, and in pure shameless arrogance - mostly backed up by the muscle power of the lumpen elements in the society.

Apart from the brazenness of their recent act (at the Mangalore pub) of hitting young girls, molesting them or outraging their modesty, only for the reason that they chose to go to pubs and have a drink or two (which, per my understanding, is not against any law of the land), the one thing that stands out for its sheer audacity is that they chose to attack the girls after inviting several camera men to record what they were intending to do. Just think about it - to hit and cause serious injuries on young girls hardly out of their teens in full view of the nation, and this, in my view, makes their act much graver. It is no different from culpable homicide, doing something wrong with absolute cognizance of the extent of lawlessness that they are committing.

We have for the last few years been witnessing the outrageous acts which such elements had been resorting to, to express their vehement opposition to Valentine's day, and such other events which youngsters would like to celebrate but which these self-styled moral policemen and policewomen dub as blatant maligning of Indian culture. It has reached a crescendo when they announced that they will marry the young couples off, if they are seen together on the Valentine's day. The most-condemnable irony in this whole process of the so-called "protection of Indian culture" is that they themselves haven't chosen to check if what they are doing is within the confines of the very culture which they are trying to protect, or to take it a step further, to shield from "extraneous interferences and influences"..

This is audacity on its extreme, and as a society, we should not let this happen. There are has to be a collective uprising against such unwanted and dastardly actions, because it inhibits what is inscribed and enshrined in our constitution. It inhibits our liberties and freedom to do what is lawful, what is legal, what is allowed by various bodies of law, and above all, what is not against the peaceful progression of a society, its mores and values. We as a society do know what the "mores and values" of our society are, and we should not let certain lumpen fascist elements (who are unfortunately amongst us) to define them for us. We as a society need to realise that such brash acts are given outright condemnation and contemptuous rejection.

Whether I'd send gifts or cards to someone on Valentine days, or chose to go to pubs with my girl friends in my younger days is not a criterion at all here. I chose to either do it or not do it, because that was within the confines of my personal freedom - no one coerced me into doing or not doing such. But what my younger friends in this country choose to do should be subject to their freedom and liberty, and not determined by the dictates of some goondas, just because they define themselves as the saviours of our culture.

I find that there are collective voices that have come up against these, and I congratulate them for their dare in standing up to such brutalities and inanities. A facebook group called "Consortium of pub-going, loose and forward women" has organised a novel "Pink Chaddi" campaign in Bangalore (link here), and the aim of this hilarious campaign is to fill the Sree Ramasena offices with thousands of pink chaddis. Pink chaddi is a symbol here - symbolic of the anger, annoyance, resentment, rage and fury of female-hood, woman-hood of our society.

There is another campaign called "Stand Up to Moral Policing"based in New Delhi (link here), and they are planning to stage demonstrations in Delhi. In their blog, they explain that their campaign is all about "standing up for our constitution and civil liberties, and about opposing the use of violence in public life", and they have chosen to protest on the Valentine's Day because of its symbolic value.

I in all my sincerity wish the very best for both these, and any similar, campaigns. And I would urge on those who are able to go to take part in these campaigns to do so whole-heartedly. I also request them to take these protests beyond just these issues - as they have written in their blog
...The real issues are actually pretty mundane, but they are arguably the most significant: access to water, to toilets, to affordable food, to education, and to primary health care. But being cowed down by these mobs of goondas, either because of our apathy or fear, will ensure that the youth never get down to thinking about these important things....
Let these campaigns meet with success, and as written by Amit Verma in his blog 'India Uncut', it is not just about Pink Chaddis, it is about our freedom, it is about our liberty....

Tail-piece: I have written about this in my blog in Malayalam, my mother-language, (link here) and one request to the Pink Chaddi campaigners that I have made in that blog post is that in case they get sarees in return for the chaddis, as Sree Rama Senaites have claimed they will do, (here) please distribute those sarees among the poor. Let hat the monkey-crowd (no offence meant to monkeys here) or their mahila wing does will be of some benefit to the needy..

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